Anda setuju?

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Cintailah orang yang kau cintai sekadarnya saja, siapa tahu pada suatu ketika nanti ia berbalik menjadi orang yang kau benci. Bencilah orang yang kau benci sekadarnya pula, kerana mana tahu pada suatu waktu nanti ia kembali menjadi orang yang kau cintai.

(Err, saya tak setuju part cinta sekadarnya tu. Tapi sangat setuju dengan benci sekadarnya. Nauzubillah. This is taken from a forum somewhere in the net.)

..."MEMENUHI SEGALA KESESUAIAN DENGAN HATI SEMUA MANUSIA ADALAH HAL YANG TIDAK MUNGKIN KAMU CAPAI"....IMAM SYAFI'I

(Betul sangat. To each, their own kan? Rambut sama hitam walaupun dah di'cat' tapi hati manusia ni tak sama)

...Biar org tak hargai kita tapi kita masih punya harga diri dari kita hilang harga diri demi untuk dihargai... Taken from Pen Dan Kertas (http://sakura3511.blogspot.com)

(Sangat tepat)

Benci

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Dari Wikipedia bahasa Indonesia, ensiklopedia bebas..

Benci atau kebencian adalah merupakan sebuah emosi yang sangat kuat dan melambangkan ketidaksukaan, enmiti, atau antipati untuk seseorang, sebuah hal, barang, atau fenomena. Hal ini juga merupakan sebuah keinginan untuk, menghindari, menghancurkan atau menghilangkannya.
Kadangkala kebencian dideskripsikan sebagai lawan daripada cinta atau persahabatan; tetapi banyak orang yang menganggap bahwa lawan daripada cinta adalah ketidakpedulian.

“Ya, allah aku berlindung kepada-Mu dari gelombang kerakusan, kerasnya kemarahan,berkuasanya kedengkian, lemahnya kesabaran, cemarnya akhlak, mengikuti hawa nafsu, mengulang-ulang dosa, menganggap kecil maksiat. Kami berlindung kepada-Mu dari penyesalan yang besar, tempat kembali yang paling buruk,ditolaknya pahala, ditimpakannya seksa. Lindungilah aku dari semua hal tersebut dengan kasih-Mu, wahai Yang Maha Pengasih dari semua yang mengasihi.”

Mummy's Day

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Hubsie-dubsie is back. Hence, the silence. Satu, sebab line asyik kena hog je. Plus, he's only home for a few days before leaving us again. Everything has to be squeezed in, catching-ups, chores, bla-di-bla. Bunyi macam really hectic, kan?

I'm now taking a short break after lunch. Kiddos are away in slumberland. Ikutkan hati, nak ikut gak. Tapi, sure kerja tak jadi kang.

Got to go, but before I do, Happy Mother's Day to all mothers out there. Although, I used to think that it's funny that we actually need a certain day or date to tell how much we love our mothers when we can do it everyday. Call me kedekut, but hey, I dont need a specific day to buy her gifts. Still, we made it compulsory for us to treat our mum dinner on this special day.

It feels somewhat different since I became a mother. Hubsie either bought me a gift or treat me out since the first kid and when the kids are old enough, they crafted me cards. This year, I received 3 cards from the boys. And they even bought me a small gift! Sure the bapak has got something to do with their surprise yang almost tak menjadi. Haha. But it's not so bad after all. Ni, kes ambik hati satu hari pastu boleh nakal baliklah ye? I thought everyday is mother's day? I told them jokingly while inside, my jantung feels sangat mengembang dek happiness.

Kids, arent they God's greatest gift? Alhamdulillah..

To Each, Their Own

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

I think this was taken 3 or 4 years back. Azhad was either 5 or 4 years old. He didnt know who these aunties were. He spent half of the day with the 2 girls while mummy spent the day slaving at work.

He brought back with him a teddy smelling of Ella's perfume. Told me, Auntie kasi. He still keeps the teddy, though, minus the smell, placed nicely on the shelf. I think, by now, he knows who Ella is.

Penawar Penyakit Hati

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

A bad news from a friend on her miscarriage led me to a sleepless night. I felt for her, deeply.

Moved by her loss, I was quick to be reminded of my own.

This was taken (curi-curi) while she was in ICU, few days after her birth. Born a mere 1.45kg, we named her Adlynna Batrisya. She survived for 10 days. This is our only picture of her.

Thoughts of her never escaped me, especially each time we celebrate Adly's birthday, or shall I say, their birthdays?